Life Without Limits

If we correctly see our potentials for living lives without limits, I want to keep reminding myself, that what you did not make it that successful in the past does not mean you wouldn’t so in the near future. Once we got a whole new ideology, with accumulative experiences, new skills, we can go after our dreams again and achieve success. Be a Visionary. Mostly important, we have what we need inside of you all the time. We don’t need to search outside ourselves – we need to look within. That is the point.

Follow you heart. This world is truly a play field. Life is like a test, and it is fun to pass.

Here is a great article to share with every one of you, in honor of Steve Jobs. http://blogs.hbr.org/cs/2011/10/steve_jobs_legacy_design_your.html

Broad Exposure yourself

Broad Exposure yourself. Utilize all different resources as your contact angels. Before the class I barely acknowledged the ideology I was having for a person with grace virtue was as always being down and low-keyed. The general Asian cultures see a person devoted into work 100% shall not need to tell everyone how he works hard, as people noticed it. I only realized that well-expressing yourself in an appropriate way at the right time, people admire that. It can also help you success. 

A man’s ideology is reflected in his behavior. Yes, since I live in this people factory, how am I going to sell myself, influence people, inspiring others, and build real values?

I’m still looking to find my own niche…

Competition

Charles Schwab said, “The way to get things done is to stimulate competition.” And obviously Dale Carnegie agreed to that. To be honest I was having hard time to accept that theory. I thought people overly compete with others tends to lead us misleading the point, that is doing your own work and making it perfectly as you feel the proud. But, I will have to admit that this principle do work on certain people who might be desire-driven, tends to excel and prevail over others, outperform others, more of emulous personality. I also have to admit that this is the real world, the world of people factories, so it may necessary to just follow the rule, because it is logical, to win the life game.

How to Get Cooperation: Let the other person feel that the idea is his or hers

This is a great concept that can also relate to a pilot program. When trying to sell an idea or products, if we can thrust a foot into that field, and always ask all the stakeholders what their comments are, it could be easier to get cooperation. Same thing can apply to your office philosophy.

The Secret of Socrates - From Dale Carnegie

We may begin the conversation with an open-probe question and people say “Yes” at the outset, leading them in the affirmative direction. Interesting part is the psychological patterns. When a person says “No” and really means it, he or she is doing far more than saying a word of two letters. The entire organism – glandular, nervous, muscular – gathers itself together into a condition of rejection. The whole neuromuscular system, in short, sets itself on guard against acceptance. To the contrary, when a person says “Yes”, the organism is in a forward-moving, accepting, open attitude. That, what is buried far underneath the surface is much important than the appearance, is the point.

Easy Life - Introduction

I know, we all might’ve been there - Struggling in between works and family, tight financial situations, messy health conditions, miserable marriage, unsatisfying friendship, broken-hearted love life, the list can go on and on and on. I'm still learning to deal some of those situations. Hey, aren't these what we so-called, "Life"?

But now, I start doubt it. If there's ever an Universal Law to lead us to a more satisfying, fulfilling, easier life, where the hell is that key link we are missing right here?

The culture of my own background raised me to be deeply thankful to whatever you possessed, to just accept everything happened on you, including the way people treat you. Mindset is to be rigid as a stick in the mud. 3, 4 years ago I started go back reading the great classics. Those are truly essence of all the ancient mighty wisdom. I implemented them in my daily life. I found my peace back.

But just about 3 years later, somehow I noticed I could still feel loss: How do I properly see my own purse? What about my contentment? And my personal goal? How do I correctly achieve all of them without contradicting my belief, especially in this ever-rapid changing world?

So I can't stop wondering: Is there any other ways or rules can actually help us to be a truly happy, healthy person, and completely gaining control of our own life?

Please don't take me in a bad way. I do believe that every single one of us is just like a body cell. Once and only when we are a happy, healthy individuals/cells, thus we can have a healthy world/strong body in a balance. Each fundamental unit is equally important, and we must do everything in a mutual benefit way.

Still seeking for that best answer to life....